Thursday, July 14, 2011

Manage Jokes in a Good Way


We usually don't know how to behave or respond to a person who jokes about us. The given guidelines however have proved best to deal with such situation.

People make fun of others because they want to make them embarrassed or hurt them. This can be avoided if you totally ignore the joke and take it as a normal conversation. Reacting to a joke or defending yourself makes the joke more intensified. Keep the conversation go on.

You can joke in style and responds to a person who makes fun of you. This puts the person joking about you in your place and he/she feels embarrassed instead of you.

To make such a joke you have to act really smartly. Say the joke in such a way that it shows your advantage over the person joking about you. The person will realize than how fool he has been by joking about you.

A confident person will never react to a joke made about him/her. He/she will rather embrace the joke and amplify it in such a way that the impact of the joke becomes positive.

For example if a person says to you, you don't go out often. Do you?? A smart answer will be to tell you the truth, this is the first time in the whole year?. The joke maker will definitely feel how easy you are with whatever you do and that you don't want others to support your activities.

Jokes, many times, have meaning other than the apparent one. Sometimes it is felt quite clearly that the person making the joke has some issue with you or has got hurt. In such a scenario you better try to find the actual meaning of the joke instead of focusing on the apparent meaning.

If you manage jokes in a good way, you actually keep yourself away from getting hurt or insulted. The skill of handling jokes in a better way also shows your good way of responding to others.




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